Wednesday, October 17, 2007

My dear God,

I learned today that my dear friend has breast cancer. When she called I went right to her home. We sat around the fire pit in her garden area. As I sat there looking at her, hearing her voice, I remembered events in 1997.

On the day I was diagnosed with breast cancer in December 1997, Cindy came to my home to hear the results of my tests. I had to tell her I had cancer. She hugged me, promised me she would pray, then she left because my family and a pastor friend was there with me.

In the days and weeks following that day, December 17, Cindy was with me. She was present the day of my surgery. She stayed with me at the hospital rotating with my family because I had various problems. After I came home she was one of three people who took 24 hour care of me. I will never forget those days; neither will I fail to remember the gift of my friend who took such good care of me.

And now she sat before me with the same diagnosis. I promised her my support and help at doctor's appointments. I told her I would be with her during surgery and at any other time she needed me.

I now see cancer from the other side. My friend has just entered that strange maze, one everyone has to go through if they intend to battle the disease. I know each step. No, I did not have to have chemo or radiation. My oncologist told me I was not a candidate because I had extreme flashes. Chemo would create more of a problem for me. I would be non-functioning.

I don't know yet what my friend will have to experience. Her appointment with a surgeon is not until next week. I am praying for her.

Loving God,
my friend
is generous, loving, and kind.
I pray for her.
Hold her,
keep her.
May she find
in you
a deep, abiding friend
as I did.
As I do.

Love, Andrea